Nobody warns you that you can be deeply in love with someone and still feel completely disconnected from them.
One day the passion just gets quieter. You're kind to each other. You function. But something that used to feel electric now feels like logistics, and you don't talk about it because you don't even know how to name it.
Cheryl Fraser named it. She's a Buddhist teacher and a sex therapist, and Buddha's Bedroom is the most honest book written about what really kills desire in long-term relationships and what brings it back. Not tips. Not date nights. The actual inner work.
We'll get into why desire disappears, what we do to push passion away without realizing it, and what it means to bring real presence into your relationship instead of just showing up physically.
This is the conversation most women have only ever had with themselves. We're having it out loud and you should be there.
Grab a drink from Just the Drip while we gather. Free event.
This is a free event